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    THERE IS A SECRET TO LIFE

And it’s not just reserved for some special one percent,

it’s there for everyone
  Because while we don’t have much say about

what’s coming around that corner …

WE HAVE ALL THE SAY IN THE WORLD ABOUT HOW WE LEARN TO RESPOND TO WHAT DOES

   •    WE HAVE THAT POWER OF CHOICE

  And in that POWER lies freedom, THE FREEDOM OPEN UP AND Be and SHARE THE BEST OF OURSELVES - move past the limitations of

‘IT IS WHAT IT IS’ and tap into that magical ‘WHAT CAN BE'

 SO WHY DON’T WE AUTOMATICALLY DO THAT? WHY DO WE GET STUCK - running around in circles - chasing our tails?

    There’s a Beautiful Quote by Udeme Archibong

   •    Your habits are a mirror that reflects your future. Human are creatures of limitless possibilities … but many people are handcuffed of those possibilities because they are held bound by the chains of bad habits.

 I got an inkling nto that when I sat with my father in his last few days of life, my mum in her last few months and a great friend at the end of his time here and as we sat and shared, I watched, I listened and learned …
All three of them had this burning need to shed and let go of things they had been holding onto inside of them over the years - a weight holding them down - emotional pain, anger, fear, regrets, grudges that had been negatively seeded into them and they had never fully dealt with … and while it was ugly at times to watch them wrestle with and pluck these negative seeds out … uglier still when those seeds had embedded themselves and grown into choking weeds so they had to literally YANK THEM OUT to be free of them … when they got them out - Oh it was so BEAUTIFUL - a massive weight came off their shoulders - freed of the burden they’d been carrying - and I realised what they were doing - they needed to be at peace in preparation for whatever is next  … and it led me down the research rabbit hole and to talk to all kinds of wonderful people involved in end of days care … I wanted to know ‘is this the norm?’ and it is … they hear the same things over and over again …  see the same behaviours and if often comes out as BETTER HABITS - I wish list …

   •    I wish I’d laughed and loved more
   •    I wish I’d spent more time doing what was actually important
   •    I wish I hadn’t waited to stomp on my fears and gone for my dreams
   •    I wish I’d let go of anger and worry and forgiven myself and others much earlier
   •    And for goodness sake … I wish I hadn’t worried quite so much about what I thought was expected of me and what I thought people thought about me

Debilitating regrets, seeded in through our experiences  …. That IF WE DON’T DEAL WITH THEM … can embed grow into choking weeds that inhibit our life force, our spirit, our ability to tap into that magical what can be …

           IT WAS A EUREKA MOMENT …  Watch Enjoy Share xxx plh

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